Question: One day, after having dinner together, you're enjoying a cozy walk by the roadside when you suddenly notice a stray dog scavenging for food beside a garbage pile. What would he do?
a. Take the stray dog to an animal shelter
b. Come back every day to feed the stray dog
c. Not notice the stray dog and walk straight past
d. Take the stray dog home to adopt it
Answers:
a. You hold 50% of his heart. The other 50% is occupied by his friends. He's quite playful and has a wide circle of friends. Compared to spending weekends alone with you, he'd rather bring you out to hang out with his group of friends, so you rarely get the intimate one-on-one time you desire.
b. You hold 60% of his heart. He's someone who deeply values emotions and loyalty—but pay attention, "emotion" and "loyalty" are separate concepts. Both hold significant weight in his heart. Toward you, he'll try his best to fulfill anything within his capability. However, if you still ask that clichéd question, "If both my mom and I fall into the water, who would you save first?" his answer would likely leave you embarrassed.
c. You hold 30% of his heart. Right now, he's still in a playful phase and hasn't seriously thought about the future. In his eyes, love is just taking things one step at a time. His feelings for you are better than for an ordinary friend, but it's not yet the deep, committed love you're hoping for—it's still lacking that spark. So you'll need to put in more effort to truly win him over.
d. You hold 80% of his heart. You are extremely important to him. He deeply cares about your thoughts and opinions. He listens carefully to any advice you give and strives to change in the direction you hope for. Although you may often notice many things about him that disappoint you, find his habits irritating, and constantly compare his shortcomings to those of others, you should also recognize that he is actively changing to become the person you want him to be. Remember, the process is more important than the outcome.